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CoachingJanuary 23, 2023

Love — it don’t come easy

In South African in the early 70s we had women’s lib, people’s lib, gay lib. But few role models to reflect the times. Many of us wed and then we fled. Products of our time?

DurbanFebruary 13, 2013

Searching for Christian Grey

Fifty Shades fever is alive and well — but clone the hot guy if you really want to perform a service. By Wanda Hennig First […]

CoachingSeptember 13, 2012

The Art of S-e-x-uality

Wanda Hennig discovers The Bedroom, a boudoir boutique for women in Durban, South Africa where the women owners host play-shops featuring speakers who address small groups on subjects ranging from extending orgasms, to how to talk to your children about sex, to waking the goddess within. Sexual play and rekindling sexual passion are popular themes.

Erotica and RelationshipsOctober 11, 2009

Sex, Social Media and New Zealand — (Part 1)

Travel writing in the age of blogs, twitter — and when ‘viral’ is desirable.
By Wanda Hennig A veteran print journalist and editor — turned online writer, blogger and social media buff — embarks on a real-life travel writing-cum-social media project and invites you along for the ride. Tips, hints, pitfalls to avoid, good practices to aspire to, facts, fallacies and all the write stuff.
The invitation in my inbox read:
“Dear Wanda
 — Love is in the air at Air New Zealand as the airline prepares for the world’s first Matchmaking Flight. On October 13, an estimated 100 singles will journey from Los Angeles to Auckland, each with the hope of finding a match in air,

CoachingJanuary 25, 2009

How to rekindle sexual passion when the fire is dead

It’s late at night and you’re in bed. The body to your left, pushing gentle zzzzs, radiates a comfortable warmth. The radio to your right plays softly. Your mental meanderings are suddenly jolted into focus by Rod Stewart’s voice. It’s golden oldie time and he’s warbling on about passion. “I need passion. You need passion. We need passion. Can’t live without passion.”

CoachingJanuary 23, 2009

What women want from relationships

It seems relationships are synonymous with challenge. Seven-year itches. Call them what you will. All complicated dances — as real in live as on the screen.

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